The process of adopting a child can be difficult for all involved. There are many obstacles and mistruths that can make the journey a very traumatic one. However, despite the trauma of separation and loss, adoption stories are filled with strength and resilience.
While it isn’t always easy for parents to talk about their adopted children’s history, doing so can help them build a strong bond with their children and teach them about the importance of honoring their story. There are also several resources for families that can guide them on their journey.
How and how much an adopted person wants to share about their story is up to them. However, parents should encourage them to do so in a way that helps them educate others while owning and understanding their story.
Susan grew up in an era when abortion was not widely talked about, but she knew that she could not care for her baby alone. She sat down with her family and discussed her options. She decided to place her daughter for adoption.
As a result, she was able to find closure and peace about her decision. She didn’t want to dwell on something she could not change, but being a part of Elizabeth’s life is a treasured blessing that Susan is incredibly grateful for. Susan’s story is just one of many, but every adoption story has a similar theme: separation and loss followed by a sense of strength and resilience.